Deccan Positive Mental Health Practitioners Association
The Deccan Positive Mental Health Practitioners (DPMP) aims to serve as a shining example of unity, integrity, and national cohesion.
Friday, February 20, 2026
The Curious Journey of Swamy and the Kindness Stone
Thursday, February 19, 2026
Vani Finally Finding her Voice
Setting boundaries with respect and calm meant she could care for herself without being rude or staying silent.
We do not have to react quickly to every challenge in life. Sometimes, the strongest response is the one we choose with care and calm. Even after standing up for herself, Vani still felt nervous about future gatherings. She worried about more criticism, but she kept moving forward. This is what courage often looks like:
The Calm That Changed Everything
Keerthi stormed into the room, cheeks flushed with frustration.
“Sita, look at this mess! How could you let it get this bad?” she shouted, her voice sharp and hurt. The pile in the corner seemed to grow bigger under her glare.
Wednesday, February 18, 2026
The Dawn After the Darkest Hour
Even when it feels like your world is falling apart, hope is often closer than you think. Think about South Africa’s dark days of apartheid. In 1964, Nelson Mandela and his brave friends were locked away for life on Robben Island a place so harsh, it was said no one ever came back. But instead of giving up, Mandela and the others held onto each other and made a promise: no matter how hard it got, they would not let the prison break their spirits. They’d keep believing, keep supporting one another, and survive so they could one day help tear down apartheid.
Monday, February 16, 2026
The Window That Waited
Manaswi was six when she learned that “See you soon” doesn’t always come true.
Her elder sister, Riya, would sling her school bag, pinch Manaswi’s cheeks, and say, “Be good. I’ll bring you something.” Manaswi would stand at the doorway of their small flat, waving until Riya disappeared down the stairs.
That evening, the house felt wrong—too quiet, too many footsteps in the corridor. Neighbours gathered. Her mother’s phone kept ringing and ringing. Then her father came in with a face Manaswi had never seen before—blank, cracked, frightened.
There had been a road accident. Riya died before she reached the hospital.
No one sat Manaswi down and explained it clearly. The adults were busy with rituals, relatives, paperwork, and their own shock. When Manaswi asked, “When is Riya coming back?” people said, “Don’t talk like that,” or “God took her,” or they just cried. Manaswi stopped asking.
Instead, she started watching.
Every day after school, she’d stand near the window with her chin on the grill, scanning the lane for a familiar braid and that quick, confident walk. Her body stayed ready like if she watched hard enough, she could undo what happened.
Manaswi grew up, but the “watching” didn’t leave. In college and later in relationships, if someone didn’t reply, her chest tightened. If a partner said, “I need space,” her mind jumped to one thought: They’re gone. She would text again, over-explain, apologise, cling trying to prevent another sudden loss.
In therapy, she finally named it: not “neediness,” but a frightened protector built by grief. She learned to say, “This fear is old. I’m safe right now.” Slowly, she practised waiting, asking directly, and letting people return without chasing them.
Moral 1: When children aren’t given clear truths, they create scary stories to survive.
Moral 2: Anxiety often begins as love trying to prevent loss.
Moral 3: Healing means updating old alarms—so you can trust the present.
Sunday, February 15, 2026
From Comparison to Contribution: Ravi’s Revolution
Ravi, 28, a junior accountant, sat across from me and spoke quietly.
“I’m lazy. Everyone else is ahead.”
His eyes showed embarrassment, a pain made worse by years of comparing himself to others. As the middle of three brothers, Ravi felt overshadowed by his oldest sibling, a doctor praised at every family event. The youngest was always called “the baby” and never blamed for anything.
Tubman's Fearless Freedom in Action
👉The threat of family separation and
👉 The daily burden of harsh labour made her early life extraordinarily painful, but her spirit stayed strong.
Tubman’s life is more than a story of survival; it shows true psychological resilience.
Friday, February 13, 2026
Carpenter's Gratitude: A Journey from Want to Abundance
The Journey of Suma and the Mountain
From her earliest memories, Suma carried a quiet, insistent question in her heart: Was she truly enough? Each story she heard of those who reached the summit stirred both longing and doubt within her. Could conquering the mountain finally prove her worth to herself?
Wednesday, February 11, 2026
Tom's Anger Challenge
Tom was a 13-year-old boy who often felt angry over little things. One morning, his mom asked him to clean his messy room. Tom’s face turned red with frustration. He hated cleaning and didn’t want to do it. In a burst of anger, he shouted at his mom, “I don’t care! Leave me alone!” His mom looked at him, calm and patient. She softly said, “Anger will only make you feel worse, Tom. It’s okay to be upset, but try not to hurt anyone with your words.”
That night, Tom thought about what his mom said. The next day, the same thing happened. His mom asked him to clean his room again. But this time, Tom took a deep breath. Instead of yelling, he calmly said, “I don’t want to clean now, but I will do it after I finish my homework.” His mom smiled and agreed. Tom felt proud of himself.
A few days later, his younger sister borrowed his favourite game without asking. Tom felt his anger building up. But he remembered his mom’s words. He took a deep breath and said, “Please ask me next time before taking my things.” To his surprise, his sister apologised and promised to ask in the future.
Moral:
Anger can make you feel worse, but staying calm helps you feel in control.
Talking kindly helps fix problems and keeps relationships strong.
Tuesday, February 10, 2026
Sara's Journey of Respect and Self-Worth in Marriage
Sara had always believed in the power of respect and understanding in her marriage with Khan. But recently, she felt something changing. During their conversations, Khan often interrupted her, preventing her from finishing her thoughts. It wasn't just frustrating - it HURTS.
One evening, as Khan interrupted her again, something inside Sara shifted. Instead of getting angry, she remembered a piece of advice she had read:
"Let me finish."
Calmly, she said those words, hoping Khan would realise the weight behind them. But when didn'tn’t, Sara made a choice. She continued speaking, ignoring his interruptions, determined to hold onto her worth.
Later, she sat down with Khan and shared how his actions had been affecting her. She spoke from the heart, saying, "When you interrupt me, it makes me feel like my word doesn't matter." Khan, realising the impact of his behaviour, apologised sincerely. He promised to be more mindful.
The moral of Sara's story is simple:
Your voice matters.
In a relationship, it's crucial to stand up for yourself, not out of anger, but out of self-respect. Sometimes, all it takes is one calm moment to change the course of things. Respectful communication isn't just about talking,it's about
👉 listening,
👉 valuing, and
👉 honouring each other's words.
And when you do, relationships grow stronger.
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